It’s not all about fashion, is it? It’s also about comfort, and how you feel about how you look. Fashion is what other people think. Fashion is what other people do.
“Your style expresses who you are to the world. In developing a sense of style, it’s important to know what you are looking for. Do your research by consulting a range of fashionable sources. In the end, do what looks and feels good to you. Soon, you will develop your own personal style brand.”
Pretend as if you were creating your own style for your own brand.
“Determine how you want to appear to others. Think about the specific terms you want others to say about you. For example, perhaps you want to appear bubbly and friendly. Maybe you want to be called sophisticated and daring. You might even want to look intelligent and sensible. Write these words down in a list, and think about your style choices can help you fulfill these terms.”
What about, not how you want to appear, but how you want to be.
Come to grips with who you are, in order to determine what is appropriate and inappropriate for your personal style (and why).